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An event that was (for me) a revelation

Yesterday I found the title of the booklet by Msgr. Giussani I read years ago in the English edition of the Italian magazine 30 Days in the Church and in the World. It was called He Is If He Changes. Sadly, this is not in the 30 Days archive. I did find a couple of reflections that Don Giussani gave to novices of Memores Domini in the summer of 2003, which would have been about a year-and-a-half before he realized his destiny. In reading these brief reflections I was deeply moved by Giussani's paternal care. I was also moved by his honesty. The quote below is uncharacteristic of the Giussani I have read:



"You have been told that one who loves is one who truly aids your destiny, who truly loves the mission of our life, who truly loves your vocation. Yes, it is true, God has chosen me as responsible for your vocation. This is a given fact that cannot leave anyone unmoved. I say this so that you may pray to Our Lady to help me in this great task that she has given me, that her Son has given me, that Jesus has given me.

"I do not know if, in the last meditation, a phrase was quoted that has been handed down to us by the history of the Church, Cardinal Baronio’s phrase, 'Oboedientia et pax,' obedience and peace. Obedience to God is given by obedience to the one He has placed as responsible for your life.

"He has placed me, He has called me, as responsible for your life—I repeat—with all my faults, with all the weaknesses I may have; but it is His strength, His strength that saves you. His strength returns to you as light on your path. His strength makes your steps sure—not the strength of men, but of God—along the road that He will point out to you through my words, through the cordiality of my heart. Any other solution is very doubtful—it does not avoid ambiguity, because someone can claim to love your destiny and your vocation, while he really loves himself, while he loves his forms of vocation, while he loves the whims of his heart as if they came straight from God.

"Let us pray to the Lord, then, with a Glory be to St Joseph, patron of the holy Church, whom no one would ever have dared to think responsible for Christ, if it were not for the fact that he was placed, by Our Lady, as responsible for His life."
The angel of the Lord declared unto Mary
and conceived of the Holy Spirit

Behold the handmaid of the Lord
Be it done unto me according to thy word

And the Word became flesh
and dwells among us

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Pray for us, O Holy Mother of God
that we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ

Let us pray:
Pour forth, we beseech thee, O Lord, thy grace into our hearts
that we to whom the Incarnation of Christ, thy Son, was made known by the message of an angel, may by his Passion and Cross be brought to the glory of His of Resurrection, through the same Christ our Lord. Amen.

Holy Mary, Mother of God- pray for us
St. Joseph- pray for us
St. Benedict- pray for us
St. Nicholas- pray for us
Don Giussani- pray for us

Barack Obama 30-Minute Ad Video; William Balfour Refused Polygraph Test, etc

Barack Obama 30 minute ad video: Barack Obama aired a 30-minute television ad on CBS, NBC, MSNBC, Fox, BET, TV One and Univision on October 29.

Lacey Schwimmer suffered endometriosis: Lacey Schwimmer, the 20-year-old Dancing With the Stars member revealed that she has been diagnosed with endometriosis, the same condition as Julianne Hough.

Nicole Kidman parade cover photo Nicole Kidman covers parade magazine: In the upcoming Parade magazine, Nicole Kidman talks more about mothering baby Sunday Rose, her teens Bella and Connor adopted together with ex Tom Cruise, and husband Keith Urban's battle with alcoholism.

David & Victoria Beckham to be superheroes: Stan Lee, who created Spider-Man and Fantastic Four, is hoping to turn David & Victoria Beckham into cartoon superheroes for his POW! Entertainment.

William Balfour Refused Polygraph Test: The 27-year-old  suspect refused to take lie-detector test over Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother and nephew murders.

David Cook Confirms Dating Kimberly Caldwell on Johnny and Jayde Radio Show

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David Cook Kimberly Caldwell are dating. (Picture: TMZ.com)

David Cook, American Idol 7's winner, admitted dating Kimberly Caldcell, American Idol 2's alum, on Atlanta's Johnny and Jayde radio show and said their relationship goes well. The rumor that David Cook and Kimberly Caldwell are dating was surfaced back in May after the former invited the latter to have a dinner. Appearing on Live with Regis and Kelly then, Cook said, “I went out on a date the other day with a woman named Kimberly Caldwell. I did [have a good time].”

Zac Efron HSM3 Cut Shower Scenes Auctioned on eBay

Zac Efron's some deleted showering scenes from High School Musical 3: Senior Year have surfaced. Many exclusive photos selected from various angles, bloopers, cut and behind-the-scenes, promotional shots from the musical movie are being auctioned on eBay.com. It's not cheap!

Oldest Hebrew text unearthed

Archaeologists digging in Israel have unearthed what carbon dating indicates to be the oldest the Hebrew text, which experts believe to have been written about 3,000 years ago. This is one thousand years earlier than the Dead Sea Scrolls.

Photo from Reuters



Please see today What it means to be a protagonist, An articulation of something we hold dear, and Called by name.

Gwen Stefani Shows First Photo of Zuma Nesta Rock Rossdale, Her Second Son on NoDoubt.com

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Proud mummy Gwen Stefani has just released the first official photo of her second son with husband Gavin Rossdale, Zuma Nesta Rock Rossdale.

"We wanted to share with you the first photo of Zuma Nesta Rock Rossdale. Gwen, Gavin, Kingston and Zuma are all doing well and enjoying being a party of four." the singer announced on NoDoubt.com today on October 29.

Also on the day, Gwen Stefani was seen taking baby Zuma Gavin with her and visiting a library in Beverly Hills.

A few items

My dear friend Rocco, writing over on Whispers, has a piece he wrote as an explanation of another piece he penned for the U.K.'s The Tablet, for whom he is U.S. correspondent. The Tablet article is Fifty bishops say U.S. election is about abortion. The post is 50 Bishops... and Then Some. It is about bishops and the election. The takeaway is "'that Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship is the teaching that has been approved by the body of bishops of the United States.

"Period.

"Except in Scranton."


And the second item is like unto the first and is posted over on Is It Possible? It is called "[H]ow to live your own freedom every day". As it pertains to the election, the criteria we follow as Catholics is that given by the USCCB, unless your local ordinary, as in Scranton, says otherwise. For those of us in CL, we also have What We Hold Most Dear, which is a set of more specific criteria that is faithful to the USCCB document. It is a synthesis, to lapse into celini-speak, of Faithful Citizenship. In fact, Cardinal Seán posted it on his blog. At the end of the day, as an act of liberation, I was forced to reconsider my own point of view in light of the criteria laid out. Again, it was a free act of personal liberation because it affirmed who I truly am, affirmed my own dignity. I made my choice in the awareness of my destiny. It also helped me, at the end of this overheated political season, to put politics in perspective. I was greatly aided by Sharon's appeal to reason, wherein she applied the criteria we follow in her four part Reasoning to a Vote. Nonetheless, I benefited from my struggle and I hope others did, too. There are issues, like abortion, that I think we need to attain more clarity as to how to translate our criteria into law and policy.

I have to say that one of the most liberating realizations I have arrived at in my whole life is coming to see that freedom is not an assertion of myself against reality. Liberation comes by means of following and obedience in the context of communion and companionship. I am grateful for my companions, many of whom I journey with along a cyber path. The kingdom is present here, too!

Fergie Josh Duhamel Wedding in 2009 June

Singer Fergie and her boyfriend of 4 years, Transformers actor Josh Duhamel are getting married. According to DailyStab.com, Fergie, 33, vocalist of band Black Eyed Peas, and Josh, 35, who became engaged one year ago, reportedly have planned a summer wedding in 2009 June.

 Future wife and husband, Fergie and Josh Duhamel reportedly will be married in the summer of 2009
Future wife and husband, Fergie and Josh Duhamel reportedly will be married in the summer of 2009 (picture @ CC)

Fergie has just started interviewing wedding planners. She’s also working with Chanel designer Karl Lagerfeld on getting her fantasy gown. They are taking their time to get everything right. They only plan on getting married once.” A source was quoted by the website as saying.

Julianne Hough Endometriosis Appendectomy

Julianne Hough Dancing on Dancing With The Stars Picture
Julianne Hough Dancing on Dancing With The Stars (Picture embedded from Photobucket.com)

The stomach trouble that Julianne Hough suffered last week turned out to be more than just a stomachache. The 20-year-old two-time Dancing With The Stars champion and country music singer was diagnosed with Endometriosis--a common condition in which tissue from the uterus lining grows outside the uterus causing painful cysts and possible infertility, according to Wikipedia. As required, Jualianne Hough will be performed an appendectomy to remove her appendix. She announced on her website that she was to have the operation in Cedars Sinai medical center, Los Angels today October 28. Wish Jualianne a speedy recovery!

In memoriam- Blessed Pope John XXIII

Fifty years ago today Angelo Giuseppe Cardinal Roncalli, the Patriarch of Venice, was selected to be the 262nd successor of St. Peter. I have several posts on Good Pope John, both here and on our parish blog. So, here is a Καθολικός διάκονος retrospective

Good Pope, bad assessment

Il Papa Buono-Blessed John XXIII remembered

Papal Coronation of Blessed John XXIII

On The People of St. Mary Magdalene:

The Divine Witness of a Humble Pope

Il Papa Buono, part II

Blessed John XXIII- pray for us.

Happy Diwali to all Hindus, Jains, and Sikhs. Let peace prevail, especially in India.

Too much of a good thing


It has been an eventful week, more eventful than usual, with our new family member arriving and a full slew of activities, including me preaching this past weekend So, keeping our next to smallest child occupied and not feeling replaced has been important. We do not watch a lot of television, even movies. We rented the latest Veggie Tales movie, The Pirates Who Don't Do Anything. I love Veggie Tales and enjoyed the watching this movie with my little guy. Over the week we had the DVD he probably watched it three or four times. So, the other night, after we ate, he needed to wash his hands. There he stood in front me, his hands behind his back, when I said "We have to wash your hands, buddy". He said, calmly, "I don't have hands". I replied by asking, "You don't have hands, how's that?" He said, "I'm a cucumber".

Three year-olds are some of the coolest people I know!

Possible Julian King Body Found in Chicago, Christina Aguilera Debuts "Keeps Gettin' Better" Music Video on iLike.com, etc

Julian King photo from jennifer Hudson's MySpace page

Julian king photo from Jennifer Hudson's MySpace page

Julian King's possible body found: A male body believed to be Jennifer Hudson's 7-year-old missing nephew was found in a white SUV on Chicago's West Side Monday morning, October 27. Hudson is offering $100,000 reward for her nephew's safe return.

Christina Aguilera Keeps Gettin' Better iLike.com video debut: Christina Aguilera to debut her new music video Keeps Gettin' Better on the music web site iLike.com Monday afternoon.

David Beckham GQ UK photo December 2008

David Beckham does GQ UK December 2008: David Beckham covers the December issue of British GQ. The soccer ace talks about everything including his career, friends and his tattoos over 12 pages in the magazine’s 20th anniversary issue.

Amy Winehouse hospitalized again: Amy Winehouse was taken to The London Clinic for tests on her chest on Saturday.


Manuel Uribe wedding video (above): Manuel Uribe, the orld’s heaviest man, married Claudia Solis, his girlfriend of four years in Mexico on Sunday.

Year A 30th Sunday of Ordinary Time

Readings: Exo. 22,20-26; Ps. 18,2-4.47.51; 1 Thess. 1,5c-10; Matt. 22,34-40

The words of our Lord from today’s Gospel bear repeating: “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments” (Matt. 22,37-40). These words sum up our faith whole and entire.

For observant Jews there are 613 mitzvot, or, specific requirements of the law. Too often, as Christians, we belittle the commitment of observant Jews. Especially when we read passages such as this one, in which our Lord is disputing with observant Jews, we must not forget that he was one of them. Our all too easy dismissal of the scribes and Pharisees reveals a mistaken way of looking at things. The mistake we make is by believing that Jesus calls on us to do nothing and gives us no concrete requirements to carry out.

It is important for us to recognize that the answer Jesus gives to the scholar of the law is a faithful Jewish answer. He does not belittle obedience to the law by means of observing the mitzvot. His answers are from the law. The commandment to love God comes from the beginning of the sixth chapter of the Book of Deuteronomy, which is the fundamental Jewish profession of faith, the Sh'ma Yis'ra'eil- "Hear, O Israel! The LORD is our God, the LORD alone! Therefore, you shall love the LORD, your God, with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength. Take to heart these words which I enjoin on you today. Drill them into your children. Speak of them at home and abroad, whether you are busy or at rest. Bind them at your wrist as a sign and let them be as a pendant on your forehead. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates" (Deut. 6,4-9).

The second commandment that Jesus gives when asked by the scholar for one is to love one’s neighbor as one’s self. This, too, is from the law, the Book of Leviticus (Lev. 19,18). Our Lord is not teaching anything new to his hearers. Neither is he just throwing in a bonus commandment, going the extra mile, as it were. He is showing us that while these two commandments are distinct, they are so closely bound together that the second is “like” the first. In other words, you cannot have one without the other. What is revolutionary in Jesus’ teaching is that one’s neighbor is inclusive of any person you encounter, not just your fellow Jew, or your fellow Catholic. More particularly, your neighbor is your fellow human being, especially the one who needs your help. In all this our Lord is explaining not just the intention that should give rise to adherence to the law, but the very reason for the law.

What Jesus requires of those who would follow him makes observing 613 written rules look easy by comparison. By substituting the words “with all your mind” for the words “with all your strength” in the passage from Deuteronomy, he is calling for nothing less than the commitment of our entire being and not merely for a sentimental attachment, or a superficial allegiance. The trouble is not with rules, it is with us! As Catholics, we can hardly dismiss rules and keep a straight face. We have plenty of rules, like fasting for one hour before Mass and observing Fridays as penitential days, which we still normatively do by abstaining from the meat of warm-blooded animals, and not just during Lent, when we are obligated to do so. If we choose not to abstain from meat, we are to perform some act of charity as a substitute. We also have the five the precepts of the church:

1) to attend Mass on Sundays and other holy days of obligation and to refrain from work and activities which could impede the sanctification of those days;

2) to confess one's sins, receiving the sacrament of Reconciliation at least once each year;

3) to receive the sacrament of the Eucharist at least during the Easter season;

4) to abstain from eating meat and to observe the days of fasting established by the Church;

5) to help to provide for the material needs of the Church, each according to his own ability” (Compendium, par. 432).

It is certainly true that rules can be observed in a lifeless and mechanical manner. It is also true that they can be observed in a self-righteous way by worrying more about looking holy than being holy, or being more concerned about how others observe them than how we do. But these five precepts are given in order “to guarantee for [us] the indispensable minimum in the spirit of prayer, the sacramental life, moral commitment and growth in love of God and neighbor” (Compendium, par. 431). In other words, rules and injunctions are not ends, but means to the end of perfecting us in love, which is nothing short of fulfilling the purpose of our existence. This is the very point Jesus is seeking to make in today’s Gospel.

Being perfected in love only happens through obedience. It is only through obedience that our will is conformed to God’s will, as Jesus showed us by his being obedient to the Father, even to the point of allowing himself to be unjustly killed. Love is not just the reason for the law. Love is the reason that anything exists at all. Love is why Christ, when we showed we were incapable of observing the law, humbled himself to share our humanity, died and rose from the dead. Love is not a feeling, but an act of the will, a choice we make, a choice we are called to make many times everyday, in all our actions and interactions.

Our first reading gives us some concrete and timeless ways to love our neighbor. These are particularly relevant with our election a little more than week a way. First, we are to look after the alien, the foreigner, in our midst. Second, we are to provide for the widow and the orphan. Thirdly, a lesson we are learning the hard way and on massive scale, due to the economic meltdown caused by issuing so many sub-prime mortgages to unsuspecting borrowers, not to loan money to those who cannot afford to repay it, especially at extortionist rates, motivated by greed. When we act unjustly in any of these ways, the Lord, in his compassion, hears the cry of the oppressed and his wrath is kindled.

St. Paul in our second reading, taken from First Thessalonians, which is probably the first book of the New Testament to be written, sees them as a community on fire with the love of God in Christ, possessed by the Holy Spirit, spilling over in love of their neighbors. They were imitators of Christ and received “the word in great affliction, with joy from the Holy Spirit, so that [they] became a model for all the believers” (1 Thess. 1,6). From them “the word of the Lord … sounded forth,” not only in their immediate vicinity, but “in every place [their] faith in God [went]” (1 Thess 1,8). In other words, wherever members of this eucharistic community went, the love of God made manifest in Christ Jesus became incarnate once again.

We gather around this altar to receive God’s love poured out for us in the Paschal mystery. From here we are sent forth to share the love we receive with everyone we encounter by living in specifically Christian way. In order to do this we have to be on fire with passion for God and our neighbor that Christ, through us, may reach him/her. My sisters and brothers in Christ, God depends on us to accomplish his purpose in and for the world, on our love, manifested in our distinct way of living, a way of life we are free to choose or reject, the choice is ours everyday.

Angelina Jolie Afghanistan Humanitarian Video

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Angelina Jolie travelled to Afghanistan in her role as Goodwill Ambassador for the UN High Commissioner for Refugees last week. Here is a video showing the actress covered traditional Muslim dress visiting school pupils and povertystricken families with her own narration. When talking with a poor old man, the mom of six children couldn't help treak down in tears.

Jennifer Hudson Nephew Julian King, Vanessa Hudgens Talking About Zac Efron Kissing Skills on Ellen Show, etc

Jennifer Hudson Missing Nephew Julian King last-seen picture 

Jennifer Hudson was seen heartbroken over the tragic news of her mother and brother's deaths before flying home to Chicago at Tampa International Airport Friday. Her nephew Julian King was still missing after abducted following the tragic shooting. Jennifer asked the public for help on her MySpace to find the 7-year-old boy.


Vanessa Hudgens The Ellen Show video

Vanessa Hudgens promoted her new movie High School Musical 3 and talked about Zac Efron's kissing skills and favourite breakfast on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" on October 24th.

Amy Poehler, the 37-year-old Saturday Night Live comedian, and her husband Will Arnett have welcomed their first child, a boy named Archie Arnett on October 25th.

Jennifer Aniston seduces & gets John Mayer drunk to pop the question: marry me!

Maya Rudolph as Michelle Obama SNL: Maya Rudolph " Michelle Obama" Saturday Night Live" Video

Comedienne Maya Rudolph [wikipedia], a long-running cast member on Saturday Night Live, returned to the show last night. She played as the future First Lady hopeful, Michelle Obama, wife of Democratic Presidential hopeful Barack Obama. Click the video play button above to watch "Mr. & Mrs. Obama" ‘playing it safe’ and performing a musical.


Maya Rudolph as Michelle Obama on SNL

Doing my moral duty

I voted early and that's that for a good long while! Is it bad that I feel ill? I still love politics. I just dislike never getting to vote for someone for president for whom I am enthusiastic about voting.

Dr. Phil Caught Cheating

Dr Phil Caught Cheating

Dr. Phil Caught Cheating -- Dr. Phil was alleged of having office affairs with his 19-year-old client back in 1980's. Check out National Enquirer for more details

Sarah B.: Lil Wayne Son Mom (Picture)

Sarah B.: Lil Wayne Son Mom! Ohio native Sarah B., a Vietnames/ Caucasian lady was reportedly the mother of Lil Wayne's new son Dwayne Carter III who was born at the Christ Hospital in Cincinnati on Wednesday October 22, 2008.

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Sarah B.: Mom of Lil Wayne son Dwayne Carter III.

Sarah B. met Lil Wayne at a concert of the rapper in 2005, and since then maintained an on-off-on again relationship. She is not a student of University of Cincinnati nor a salon tattoo artist.

Sarah B Rumored Lil Wayne New Baby Mama pic
Sarah B. & Lil Wayne

It's not know what the true job Sarah B. does, But according to the pictures published on MediaTakeOut.com, it seemed she did the one that she can make a lot of cash, which caused someone to speculate her a stripper.

"Come and see"

For those curious about Communion & Liberation, please see my post Dear Don Giussani, over on Is It Possible?, which Suzanne has beautifully re-designed, which provides a link to Paul's really outstanding post Who Is Luigi Giussani? Paul's great post was the occasion of my far more modest effort.

William Balfour Myspace: Flex A Million Thats What U Better Call Me

William Balfour Myspace! William Balfour, the suspected killer of Jennifer Hudson's mom Darnell Donnerson and brother Jason Hudson, has a MySpace.

William Balfour Myspace
William Balfour Myspace

William Balfour's MySpace username is FLEX. At his profile, Balfour stated "Flex A Million, Thats What U Better Call Me". His About Me section reads:

I AM A 26 YEAR OLD, I RESIDE ON THE SOUTH SIDE OF CHICAGO, I HAVE A WIFE HER NAME IS JULIA, AND I ALSO HAVE A 6 YR OLD STEPSON, I DON'T TOLERATE BULLSHIT, SO DON'T COME TO ME WITH IT, I LIKE TO LIVE LIFE AND EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING THATS WHY I'M HERE SEEING WHAT IT'S ABOUT, I MIGHT AS WELL LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT JENNIFER HUDSON IS MY WIFE'S SISTER I'M PROUD OF HER AND WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST IN WHAT SHE DO BUT DON'T HIT ME UP ASKING BOUT HER, OTHER THAN THAT IT'S ON!

William Balfour MySpace has the links to those of wife Julia, sister-in-law Jennifer, and their brother Jason Hudson. William Balfour has also uploaded many family photos of Hudsons to the site. So after taking a look at William Balfour MySpace webpage, if not a message of Flex in Jail on the website, almost nobody will believe he would be a cruel killer who supposedly shot two immediate family members of Jennifer Hudson, the sister-in-law he is proud of.

William Balfour Myspace Jennifer Hudson, mom Darnell Donnerson, Julia Hudson photo

"AREN'T THEY JUST LOVELY," William Balfour wrote a caption for this picture of Jennifer Hudson, Darnell Donnerson, and Julia Hudson. So tragical! He allegedly killed mother-in-law Darnell Donnerson (M) on Friday, October 24, 2008. Link

Jaime Katheryn Steen Is a Texas High School Pornographic Images SMS Teacher (Picture)

Jaime Katheryn Steen Is a Texas High School Pornographic Images SMS Teacher!

Jaime Katheryn Steen Is a Texas High School Pornographic Images SMS Teacher 
Jaime Katheryn Steen (Errr..a Jenna Bush lookalike!)

Jaime Katheryn Steen, pictured above, is an Agriculture teacher at Fort Stockton High School in southwest Texas. She turned herself in to Tom Green County jail Wednesday October 22 on charges that she sent adult pornographic pictures by the short text messages to her male teen students.  

Jaime Katheryn Steen was booked on a $4,000 bond and free on Friday. She has resigned as a teacher.

The charge against Jamie Steen, selling or distributing or displaying harmful material to a minor, is a misdemeanor punishable by 180 days to a year in jail.

Ms. Steen, 26, was only a first-year teacher. She was found having SMSed obscene images the form of jokes as text messages to her schoolboys when her school investigated on the rumor of a teacher buying alcohol for students (Jaime Katheryn Steen was allegedly bought beers for five boys on an unauthorized school trip out of USA in September). # Source & Image: Police: Teacher confesses to obscene texting @ Gosanangelo.com

Asha Mandela Longest Dreadlocks Guinness World Record

Asha Mandela Dreadlocks Guiness World Record
Pictured: Asha Mandela's Longest Dreadlocks In The World (via)

Asha Mandela of South Florida has the longest dreadlocks on the world. The hair of 46-year-old woman from Polk County that has grown 20 years measures at 8 feet 9 inches. Asha Mandela currently is applying for a Guinness World Record for her very proud assets. Snippets from Stupid Celebrities are some facts about Asha Mandela's Longest Dreadlocks in the world:

Asha Mandela’s dreadlocks are longer than she is tall. Asha began growing her dreads twenty years ago.

Asha wraps her 8 foot, 9 inch dreads around her neck like a scarf, or lets them hang down her back like a veil. Mandela is originally from Trinidad, and began growing her dreads 20 years ago while she was living in New York.

Mandela’s dreadlocks are very important to her, and she refers to them as her baby. But of course they are quite a bit of work. When she goes in her pool, it takes two hours at least for her dreads to dry. Mandela says, “I try not to have any errands that day”.

Asha Mandela washes her 8 foot dreads once a week, and it takes an entire bottle of shampoo and bottle of conditioner to accomplish the task.


Asha Mandela Longest Dreadlocks Guinness World Record Applying Video

Dismissals

With a diaconal bow to Rocco, over at Whispers, here are the three new dismissals that will appear in the revised Missal:

-- "Ite ad Evangelium Domini annuntiandum" (Go and announce the Gospel of the Lord).

-- "Ite in pace, glorificando vita vestra Dominum" (Go in peace, glorifying the Lord by your life).

-- "Ite in pace" (Go in peace).


As some may know, the very word Mass comes from the Latin for dismissal. The Mass does indeed end and we are sent forth. to live and to announce the good news we have received. Of course, we return again for nourishment, for strength, for food for the journey. I like them. I think it satisfies the desire expressed by quite a few bishops, to quote Rocco, that "the final words to reflect a more explicit connection between Mass and the church's mission of evangelization in the world". As one who has the privilege of singing the dismissal, this has been in my head all morning. What a pleasant mental state!

Michael Card and Phil Keaggy are our traditio. I am thankful for their witness to the One who is the author of our life, which we return to Him out of gratitude, out of which we craft, in the words of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta, "something beautiful for God".

Katie Holmes Uneven Teeth Pic, Anne Hathaway's ex Raffaello Follieri Jailed for 4.5 Years, etc...


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Katie Holmes uneven teeth photo embed from nachofoto

Katie Holmes unwittingly revealed her snaggletooth grin for the cameras on Wednesday, but she seemed to have had her uneven teeth fixed a day later.

Raffaello Follieri, 30, the ex-boyfriend of actress Anne Hathawayhas been sentenced October 23 to 4.5 years in prison for wire fraud, money laundering and conspiracy.

Miley Cyrus’ boyfriend Justin Gaston drunk and acted kinda like a gay at a party where he erupted his middle finger over the summer.

Lindsay Lohan Dancing With The Stars appearance was rejected, earlier her Ugly Betty role was cut after feud with America Ferrera.

Paris Hilton "Paris For President" music video preview: Paris Hilton debuts her new single and music video "Paris For President" which premieres on Sunday, October 26.

End of the (campaign) trail

This, along with two posts over on Cahiers, mark my final political posts before the election:

The "promise" of Barack Obama and

The lack of promise exhibited by Gov. Palin.

There may be a surprise there, even if motivated by a half-hearted moral obligation to vote. A couple of issues:

Human life: This is always the most important issue, from conception to death and every stage in between. Without human beings none of this means anything! If a government is unwilling to protect society's most vulnerable, it is a corrupt system that will eventually teeter on the brink of oblivion. This is not a judgment sent from God, but the natural consequence of acting foolishly. Let's miss the European train to civilizational suicide by protecting life, encouraging life, which means recognizing that human rights are God-given, not governmentally granted.

Family: This means recognizing that marriage is considerably older than the United States of America. Families create, nurture, and encourage life. It should come as no surprise to anyone that study after study demonstrates that children who grow up in a stable home with their father and mother are better off than any alternative. Fostering the family is in the state's interest. This can be done without in any way ignoring the needs of those who do not belong to traditional families or women in dire circumstances who are pregnant. I am a both/and guy who rejects false dilemmas.

Health care: As a tax payer I resent having to guarantee health care only after people are destitute and when treatment is most expensive. It would be cheaper to provide access to preventative care. Economically, the cost of health care is making us non-competitive in a global market. Plus, it is a human right. So, to whoever gets elected, fix it- it is not a partisan issue. Access to affordable health care is a human issue, it is a jobs issue. So, whatever special interests you need to kick in the groin to accomplish this long overdue reform, put on your steel toed boots and kick!

Economic fairness (solidarity): Put an end to crisis capitalism. If gains are privatized, losses should be, too. If you want me to bail out a Wall Street firm when they collapse due to incompetency, greed, and mismanagement, then I want a share of the profits when times are good and so do my fellow citizens. So, establish a rigorous regulatory system for banks and investment firms and create a tough enforcement agency. If nobody goes to jail or gets fired over what has happened, then you've been bought and paid for! Labor needs to be respected and rewarded. Most of us are laborers, not executives, or business owners. The economy exists for the human person, not the human person for the economy. It may sound like a slogan, but it is a moral axiom. The goodness of a society can be measured by its respect for life and its commitment to the poor.

Environment: We must be responsible stewards of creation. Like health care, this is not a partisan issue. We need to live sustainably. This does not mean wearing hemp sandals, dreadlocks, smelling like we just left a Grateful Dead concert, and doing freaky dances in Golden Gate Park. We need to realize that while a rising tide may lift all boats, we all don't need 200 foot yachts! This is the lesson from the mortgage meltdown, both from the lender and borrower sides of the equation. It is financially and environmentally unsustainable.

To quote the late, great Joe Strummer "It's time to take the humanity back into the center of the ring and follow that for a time . . . without people you're nothing."

Hang this over your desk: It's not the economy, it's people, stupid!

Jon Stewart gives me hope. Can I be that guy? I guess I am. Thank you very much! Neil, the comment box is open.



I am so comforted to learn that suffering has caused Alan Greenspan to discover that, at least, he exists, saying to a House committee, "those of us who have looked to the self-interest of lending institutions to protect shareholder's equity (myself especially) are in a state of shocked disbelief". Yeah, shareholder equity! Read those poor dupes who were forced to give up fixed pensions for 401Ks. Congratulations ownership society, you own $700 billion in worthless paper! Hey Greenspan, for old time's sake, let's lower interest rates to stimulate the economy and let the market work its magic. Sorry, Jon Stewart effect.

Charlie Sheen Wife Brooke Mueller Pregnant Twins

Charlie Sheen Wife Brooke Mueller Pregnant Twins! Brooke Mueller, who married to CBS comedy Two and a Half Men actor Charlie Sheen, is expecting twins who are two boys, according to Ok! Magazine.

"I'm truly blessed.....I'm already the proud father of three beautiful daughters, and I'm delighted that they'll now have two little brothers. Life doesn't get any better than this." Charlie Sheen confirmed to the mag.

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Brooke Mueller and husband Charlie Sheen expecting twin boys. (Image credit: Chris Hatcher/PR Photos)

Brooke Mueller, 31, a real estater, and sheen, 42, wedded this May in Beverly Hills, Los Angeles. In August, Mueller was revealed that she was pregnant.

While the unborn babies are the first children for Mueller, they are the fourth and fifth for Sheen who has three daughters Cassandra Jade Estevez (with Paula Profit), 25, Samantha, 4, and 3-year-old Lola (with Denise Richards).

Brooke Mueller is expected to give birth in April, 2008.

Update: Charlie Sheen wife Brooke Mueller gives birth to the twin sons on March 14, 2009. The newly born tots are named named Max Sheen and Bob Sheen.

Video: Mariah Carey Tennessee Movie Trailer

Video! Mariah Carey Tennessee movie trailer is here. In the movie which will hit the theatres in December, Mariah Carey starring Krystal, an aspiring singer who joins two brothers on their journey to find their estranged father with hopes of getting him involved in saving their younger brother who has leukemia. Link

Victoria Beckham Incarnating as Indian Bride Covers Vogue India November 2008

Awww! Victoria Beckham shows her Indian audience how to get their WoW Wedding! Wearing the traditional Indian wedding Sari, the wife of David Beckham posed as a bride in the Vogue India November bridal special issue.

Victoria Beckham Vogue India November 2008 cover photo
Victoria Beckham Vogue India November 2008 cover photo (via)

"I feel like an Indian princess", the fashion-conscious Spice Girl told People magazine.

Dwayne Carter III, Lil Wayne Son Was Born

Dwayne Carter III, Lil Wayne Son Was Born! Rapper Lil Wayne who is the MVP of the Year at 2008 BET Hip-Hop Awards, has become a newly father.

LIL WAYNE Pictures, Images and Photos
Lil Wayne @ 2008 MTV VMAs (Image embedded from Photobucket.com)

An undisclosed woman gave birth to the rapper's son at the Christ Hospital in Cincinnati in the afternoon of October 23, UsMagazine reported. Lil Wayne baby boy's name was called Dwayne Carter III (not sure if it was dedicated to Lil's new album, Tha Carter III). Other detailed info (size, weight etc.) was not available.

aby Dwayne Carter III father Rapper Lil Wayne
Rapper Lil Wayne Photo (embedded from Nachofoto.com)

Lil Wayne has a daughter named Reginae Carter (pic) with high school sweetheart Antonia "Toya" Johnson. The two were married on Valentines Day of 2004 but got divorced in 2006.

Josh Holly (TrainReq), Miley Cyrus Email Hacker, Busted by FBI

Josh Holly (TrainReq) Is Miley Cyrus Gmail Hacker Who Was Now Busted by FBI!

Hannah Montana star Miley Cyrus photo
Hannah Montana star Miley Cyrus. (Photo Credit: Albert L. Ortega/PR Photos)

Josh Holly, 19, is from at Murfreesboro in Tennessee. Holly hacked into the email account of Hannah Montana star Miley Cyrus in December 2007 and stole quite some of the 15-year-old teen sensation's private photos supposedly sent to then boyfriend Nick Jonas.

Initially, he wanted to make bucks from those provocative pictures but only found no any photo agents who'd like to buy the images since they were obtained illegally. So he watermarked those illegitimate pics with screen name Trainreq (possibly originating from trainwreck, a word often described Britney Spears during her meltdown by some gossip bloggers) and uploaded onto the internet for everyone to view. As a result, the squeaky-clean image of Miley Cyrus was almost ruined.

Josh Holly bragged openly about her wrongdoings and boasted that he would never be caught. But he may be wrong! The 19-year-old was busted by FBI at his Tennessee home on Monday October 20. The authorities seized three computers and a phone from him, Wire.com is reporting:

“A 19-year-old hacker who published provocative photos of teen queen Miley Cyrus earlier this year was raided by the FBI Monday morning in Murfreesboro, Tennessee. The hacker, Josh Holly, repeatedly bragged online about breaking into the Disney star’s e-mail account and stealing her photos. He also gave interviews to bloggers and others and boasted that authorities would never find him because he moved so often…

“When agents finally left his apartment after conducting an extensive search, they had three computers and Holly’s phone, among other things.”

Joshg Holly was not arrested or charged, but apparently he was stunned by FBI's raid:.

"I was just kind of shaking. I was thrown way off guard," he told Wired.com. "I guess somebody ended up ratting me out."

Lindsey Evans, Miss Teen Louisiana, Dethroned After Drug Arrest

Lindsey Evans, the 18-year-old Miss Louisiana Teen USA, has been dethroned with her title after a weekend arrest on charges of theft and marijuana possession in Bossien City, Louisiana.

Lindsey Evans Miss Teen Louisiana Loses Crown After Drug Arrest photo
Lindsey Evans Dethroned After Drug Arrest in Louisiana on October 18, 2008.

Lindsey Evans allegedly skipped out on a $46.07 dinner bill at a restaurant but left her bag allegedly containing marijuana at the table Saturday night. She was arrested on charges of theft and marijuana possession after she returned to pick up her bag. Source & Picture

Kelly Reilly Is Guy Ritchie's New Girlfriend? Lindsay Lohan Sued for DUI Car Chase, etc

Kelly Reilly 3rd \'London Party\' Pictures, Images and Photos
Kelly Reilly photo embedded from photobucket.com

Guy Ritchie leaves Madonna for actress Kelly Reilly: Guy Ritchie has already entered a relationship with the 31-year-old British actress Kelly Reilly, who is currently starring in his upcoming drama Sherlock Holmes, Usmagazine reported.

Lindsay Lohan sued for DUI car chase: Lindsay Lohan is being sued by three passengers who claimed the Mean Girls actress drunkenly hijacked their car to chase her assistant in July 2007.

Julianne Hough was hospitalized with stomach trouble after her performance on "Dancing With the Stars" October 21.

Christina Aguilera new album promotion photos
Christina Aguilera Keeps Gettin' Better

Christina Aguilera new album promotion photos: Christina Aguilera shows off her slim figure in promotional shots for her new record Keeps Gettin' Better - A Decade of Hits in November.

Alyson Hannigan is pregnant: The 34-year-old How I Met Your Mother star and her actor hubby Alexis Denisof are expecting their first child this spring.

Miley Cyrus' email hacker Josh Holly who got into the pop star's Gmail account was investigated by FBI.

Sarah Palin Wardbobe $150K Expenses Scandal

Sarah Palin Wardbobe $150K Expenses Scandal! Sarah Palin was hit by a scandal that the Republican National Committee has threw $150,000 plus to dress and accessorize her and her family since she was picked by John McCain as his Republican Vice President running mate in August. From Politico.com

The Republican National Committee has spent more than $150,000 to clothe and accessorize vice presidential candidate Sarah Palin and her family since her surprise pick by John McCain in late August.

According to financial disclosure records, the accessorizing began in early September and included bills from Saks Fifth Avenue in St. Louis and New York for a combined $49,425.74.

The records also document a couple of big-time shopping trips to Neiman Marcus in Minneapolis, including one $75,062.63 spree in early September.

The RNC also spent $4,716.49 on hair and makeup through September after reporting no such costs in August.

The cash expenditures immediately raised questions among campaign finance experts about their legality under the Federal Election Commission's long-standing advisory opinions on using campaign cash to purchase items for personal use.


VP candidate Sarah Palin (Photo embedded from Photobucket.com)

"a deadly anarchy"

These words of Pope John Paul II to Lindy Boggs, who served as the Clinton Administration's last ambassador to the Holy See, conclude an insightful article George Wiegel wrote for Newsweek, entitled, "Catholics and Obama":

"No expression of today's [American] commitment to liberty and justice for all can be more basic than the protection offered to those in society who are most vulnerable. The United States of America was founded on the conviction that an inalienable right to life was a self-evident moral truth, fidelity to which was a primary criterion of social justice. The moral history of your country is the story of your people's efforts to widen the circle of inclusion in society, so that all Americans might enjoy the protection of law, participate in the responsibilities of citizenship, and have the opportunity to make a contribution to the common good. Whenever a certain category of people—the unborn or the sick and old—are excluded from that protection, a deadly anarchy subverts the original understanding of justice. The credibility of the United States will depend more and more on its promotion of a genuine culture of life, and on a renewed commitment to building a world in which the weakest and most vulnerable are welcomed and protected."
I also learned that Wiegel used to be a Democrat, but left the party in 1992 when the former Democratic Pennsylvania governor, the late Bob Casey, who was pro-life, as is his son, Bob, Jr., now a Democratic U.S. Senator, was denied an opportunity to speak at the party convention that year. He expresses well a lament of mine: "I deeply regret the fact that the once-traditional political home of U.S. Catholics has embraced policy positions on the life issues that offend both Catholic faith and everyone's reason." Along with Wiegel, "I would welcome a new openness to pro-life argumentation and policy in the Democratic Party".

After expressing this hope, Wiegel pushes his case too far by essentially eviscerating anything that resembles proportionate reasoning as called for in Faithful Citizenship and set forth by other leading Catholic intellectuals, like Cathleen Kaveny, Doug Kmiec, et. al. I am skeptical about what seem to me to be alarmist claims made by Wiegel that within a year of being elected, a President Obama, with a Democratically-controlled Congress, will wipe out all pro-life gains.

I am glad that it is not yet election day. All of this is made worse by the fact that Sen. Obama's running-mate is a Catholic who should know better, but who, as Rocco reports, is busy explaining that he is "Not a JP Guy". I hate to be the one to tell you this Sen. Biden, but il Papa Buono would not be alright with your stance on abortion either. To paraphrase one of the distinguished gentlemen with whom I dined last night: In a country of 300 million people, we can't do better than this? More to the point, in a country with over 60 million Catholics, we can't do better than this for high political office? Channeling RFK! I will give Gov. Palin this, despite the fact that she does not seem to have a good grasp of the jurisprudence wrought by Roe, she is firm in her pro-life convictions and doesn't back-peddle from her faith. Nonetheless, as Deacon Greg reports, More Catholics [Are] Swinging Toward Obama. Trying to find the good in all of this, in addition the Democrats re-thinking their stance on human life, perhaps it is a good time for the Republicans to stop being bellicose and to revisit issues of fairness and economic justice.

Getting to some practical politics, it looks like the inevitable is beginning to emerge, Sarah Palin is a liability, and becoming a bigger one by the day. The most recent Wall Street Journal/NBC News poll revealed that Sen. Obama has opened up a double-digit lead over Sen. McCain, despite the fact that most respondents agreed that Sen. McCain is better prepared for the White House than Sen. Obama. As regards Gov. Palin only 38% view her positively. This is down 6% from two weeks ago. Overall, 47% of respondents view her in a negative light. This brings her negative rating up 10% over the same two weeks. This gives Gov. Palin the worst negative rating of the four candidates, despite the fact that Sen. Biden has been, well, Sen. Biden. A fair majority of respondents, fifty-five percent, do not believe that Gov. Palin is qualified to be president. This is up 5% over the past two weeks. A majority of these same respondents, while they may believe McCain better prepared to be president, obviously believe Obama is qualified, which is why they prefer him to McCain 52% to 42%. It appears McCain's bold gamble is not paying off (this paragraph is referenced from the WSJ on-line article, Obama Opens Double-Digit Lead: New Poll Shows McCain Ceding Ground on Taxes, Values; Palin Loses Shine, by Laura Meckler).

Rocco also posted something about CL that is certainly worth some attention. Congrats to Rocco and all of Philadelphia, your Phillies finally made it back to the Series!

An extraordinary evening

Last night at the dedication of Holy Family Parish, I had the opportunity to sit for supper with a group of distinguished gentlemen, all of whom are priests of the Diocese of Salt Lake City and one Jesuit priest who has long served here. It was my privilege to be in their company. It was a delightfully mixed group with three monsignors, including the pastor of the parish in which we reside, Msgr. Daz and two of our younger priests, including Fr. Sam Dinsdale, our youngest pastor. Our group also included Fr. Ken Villapondo, pastor of St. Joseph's in Ogden, which includes some 4,000 families. Msgr. Daz, Fr. Dinsdale, and I are all Ogden natives.

The food was good, the wine fine, and the company extraordinary. I thank God for all of them, for their service and their sacrifice, all of which have been instrumental in building our diocese, the church in Utah.

Lil Wayne Expecting a Boy, But Who Is Lil Wayne Baby Mom?

Lil Wayne Expecting a Boy, But Who Is Lil Wayne Baby Mom? Rapper Lil Wayne revealed he was expecting a son when accepting the "Lyricist of the Year" Award three days ago on MTV's BET Hip-Hop Awards.

Rapper Lil Wayne
Rapper Lil Wayne @ Hot 97 "Summer Jam" 2008 at Giants Stadium, Rutherford, NY on June 1, 2008. Lil Wayne is going to be a father of a baby boy. (Image credit: Jerry Livingston/PR Photos)

“I got a son about to be born any day now, so shout-out to him. Pray for me,” said Lil Wayne, who didn't revealed the identity of his unborn son.


Lil Wayne, Antonia “Toya” Johnson and their daughter Reginae Carter Picture

Lil Wayne, born Dwayne Michael Carter Jr. [wikipedia], has a daughter named Reginae Carter with high school sweetheart Antonia "Toya" Johnson. The two were married on Valentines Day of 2004 but got divorced in 2006. It's unclear who Wayne is now dating.

If RC readers you know the woman who is soon to give birth Lil Wayne's son, don't hesitate to drop a clue in comments.

Update: Lil Wayne son Dwayne Carter III was born on Wednesday October 23, 2008 at the Christ Hospital in Cincinnati.

Nick Bollea Hogan Jail Release

Nick bollea Hogan, Hulk Hogan's son stand before the car crashed in 2006 Nick Bollea Hogan Jail Release! Nick Bollea, son of pro-wrestler Hulk Logan who is in divorcing with wife Linda Bollea, was released from Florida Pinellas County Jail around 12:30 am on October 21. He was only imprisoned 166 days out of an eight months jail term for good behavior. Nick Hogan was received by sister Brooke Hogan upon his release and driven back to mom Linda's home. The 18-year-old was punished for his reckless driving under influence in August 2007 that left friend John Graziano permanently in a vegetative state.

Skylar Deleon Convicted in Three Murders, Rocco Ritchie Wore Yankees T-shirt Shows Support for Mom Madonna's Lover Alex Rodriguez etc...

Skylar Deleon After Pictures, Images and Photos
Skylar Deleon photo embedded from photobucket.com

Skylar Deleon, the 29-year-old former child actor on TV's Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers, was convicted of three counts of first-degree murder on October 20.

Madonna Pictures, Images and PhotosRocco Ritchie, the 8-year-old son of Madonna, was spotted wearing a navy New York Yankees T-shirt, showing support Alex Rodriguez's team while out in NYC.

Guy Ritchie has accused Madonna of spying on him after details of his private meeting were leaked to her during their break-up.

Alex Rodriguez flew to Florida to spend time with his two young daughters and ex-wife Cynthia Scurtis over the weekend.

Kerry Katona ZOO magazine photo

Kerry Katona ZOO magazine photos: Kerry Katona, the 28-year-old English reality TV star, shows off her new FF breasts on men's ZOO magazine after $30,000 of surgery.

True education starts from a positive hypothesis

How do we engage reality without asserting ourselves against reality?

I want to look at the example of artificial contraception. Let me state up-front the truth of the matter: artificial contraception in marriage is immoral. It is important to note that in Humanae Vitae, Papa Montini begins from a positive hypothesis: "The transmission of human life is a most serious role in which married people collaborate freely and responsibly with God the Creator". In this one sentence, Pope Paul expresses so much. It is dense! It is positive. Our collaboration with God is serious and so requires freedom, which is necessary in order act responsibly. Nonetheless, because it affects the daily lives of couples and requires choices that are difficult and no small amount of self-sacrifice, the vast majority of practicing Catholic married couples use some form of artificial contraception. In doing so they assert themselves against reality.

We all know from our own experience that it is often difficult to be reconciled to the truth because the truth requires not just something of us, but precisely us, that is, ourselves, whole and entire. This is nice and uplifting rhetoric, but what does it do for me when confronted with a situation in which I do not want to do what is right, when I want what I want now, when I lose sight of, or intentionally ignore, that which corresponds to my heart, to my deepest desire, when I have an incorrect affection towards a known person or object, when I want to give in to vice? Whenever we are not reconciled to the truth, we assert ourselves against reality. So, while truth requires us to make judgments, to engage in the struggle, we do not judge others, we respect them in their personhood, in their freedom, always mindful that they, too, are a direct relationship with Mystery, and so are loved. We also know that victory is always already ours in Christ Jesus, faith in whom is what enables us to conquer the world and not be conquered by it, even if we lose some battles.

What is the best way to engage this situation? Is it to rail and assert church teaching against them, against their experience? No! That is not starting from a positive hypothesis. Contraception is a symptom, an effect caused by something else, though immoral in-and-of-itself. It flows from a lack of true education.

What does it mean to be truly educated and how does one educate? For starters, you cannot teach apart from communicating something of yourself, from your own experience. You cannot start from an abstraction, Papa Montini does not start from an abstraction, but from human experience. I am going to take a digital musical trend, a mashup, and apply it theologically by mashing Giussani with Radcliffe: the Church has nothing to say about morality until our listeners understand that they are a direct relationship with the Mystery and that freedom is constitutive of their person. True education lies in the effective communication of this positive hypothesis, before which proposal the other person remains free. True education is never a denial of freedom; it is not coercion. True education does not consist of bending or breaking the will of another, waterboarding them with the truth. It consists of appealing to another's humanity, to his longing, to her desire. It is an invitation, given by a witness, to "Come and see" (Jn 1,44-46).

Protagonists or nobodies

The difference between a protagonist and an antagonist is how each approaches the agon (i.e., the struggle). The protagonist starts from a positive hypothesis. Conversely, the antagonist begins from a negative one. As George Wiegel observes, Pope Benedict, in his book Christianity and the Crisis of Cultures, writes: "Even the one who does not succeed in finding the path to accepting the existence of God ought nevertheless to try and direct his life...as if God did exist." Positing this hypothesis is the only possible method of verification. This method comes from our Lord himself: "Whoever chooses to do [God's] will shall know whether my teaching is from God or whether I speak on my own" (Jn 7,17).

Being a protagonist and starting from a positive hypothesis, having affection for ourselves, convinced that life has meaning, that we have a both an origin and a destiny, and that every person is a direct relationship with Mystery, does not consist of somehow trying to maintain an abstraction (this positive hypothesis) despite our experience, which, not infrequently, includes suffering. Rather, a protagonist sees this positive hypothesis proven in and through his experiences, including- maybe even especially in- his sufferings. To paraphrase our Lord, being a protagonist means not resisting the struggle, but engaging in it wholly, convinced that it is the only way to destiny (Matt. 5,39). To be an antagonist means resisting the struggle and seeing it as worthless. A negative hypothesis causes us to be cynical, to close in on ourselves and to lash out at others. We see ourselves and others as nobodies, as passive before existence. Contra Eastern religions, life is not maya, an illusion, and Jesus does not beckon us to nirvana, but to the kingdom.

In order to see yourself as a nobody, which is "to entirely lose your attachment to yourself," to your humanity, according to Fr. Carrón, "[y]ou would need some kind of total anesthesia" (Faith: The Ultimate Expression of an Affection for Oneself, pg. 8). Sadly, Carrón goes on to point out, that we live in the kind milieu, the "type of society," that is capable of providing "this kind of total anesthesia" that detaches us from our humanity, from our need (ibid). I cannot imagine practicing a religion in which the point of practice is the annihilation of the self, the detachment of myself from reality, from my humanity. Dying to myself by loving others is what makes me fully myself because it is expressive of the fundamental fact of my existence; that I am a relationship with the Mystery. Often, it is suffering and woundedness that provides the consciousness necessary to bring us back to ourselves, back to our humanity, that is, our poverty, our need, which gives birth to our desire, our longing. This opens us to the fact that God became man for us. This fact changes everything because it doesn't deny, but affirms, reality!

See also More on the event . . .

"God, come to my assistance"

"Nothing rings more true to men and women aware of themselves than the consciousness of their need; for this reason, nothing expresses what we are better than crying out, the cry of the needy person to the only One who can respond to this need" (Faith: The Ultimate Expression of an Affection for Oneself, pg. 3). I don't think this ever rings more true than on Monday mornings. May the only One capable of responding to our need accompany us today and enable us to face the reality we encounter, the people we encounter, in the confidence that we encounter Him along the path of our daily lives.

"Lord, make haste to help me."

See also Obedience: First approach at a synthesis and Affection for oneself is what opposes ideology. Oddly enough, in the latter post, I quote T.S. Eliot! So, being in a reactive state-of-mind, I exaggerated when I quoted Morrissey to the effect that Old Possum says nothing to me about my life. As it turns out, he says, in Murder in the Cathedral, "The last temptation is the greatest treason. To do the right thing for the wrong reason".

Too true

With thanks and a deep diaconal bow to Fred, writing over on Cahiers, I want to draw attention to Politics and the Election, Revisited. Francis (someone I do not know and who is voting for Sen. McCain), writes: "Msgr. Lorenzo Albacete once said that our primary (in the sense of essential or ultimate) responsibility in politics is not to end abortion or the war but to build the Church. 'To build the Church is the task of the saints, and that is not a bad party to belong to.'" Amen.

I like the idea of voting for whoever gives the church the most freedom. It is a good criterion. This brings is back to the CL statement on the elections. It is too bad that U.S. politics split us down the middle, individually and collectively. We really do get presented with false dilemmas. This makes voting difficult. It makes the use of proportional reason difficult because it is next to impossible to attain certainty regarding our choices.

I like the idea of having more than two parties. As I wrote in a comment over on Clarity Daily, there is nothing intrinsic or constitutional about the two-party system we have developed. As Jesus tells us in yesterday's Gospel, "repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God".

Fr. Carrón, speaking to the International Assembly of the Responsibles, quoting Pope John Paul II, said, "You have no homeland, because you cannot be assimilated to this society" (pg. 4). He continues, "we are without a homeland if we want to live with our eyes fixed on Jesus" (pg. 4). He is the kingdom in person!

St. Ambrose- pray for us
St. Augustine- pray for us
St. Thomas á Becket- pray for us
St. Thomas More- pray for us

Michael Stipe, T.S. Eliot, and Anonymous


Anonymous said...
You really cannot admit you didn't know the upstream source for this song, can you? You reference it a lot without referencing the source. Not knowing all things intellectual is not a personal weakness. LOL.
http://poetry.poetryx.com/poems/784/


October 19, 2008 8:20 AM

I reply:

Dear Anonymous:

First, I offer a reminder about how things work here on this blog. Secondly, I offer a commentary after a comparison made on the occasion of your first comment.

1) I do not publish anonymous critical comments. I am more than happy to publish and engage critical comments that are signed. I am making an exception in this case by posting your comment to show why I set forth this rule. I really dislike passive-aggression.

2) I actively ask my readers to hold me accountable, but I do not feel like I have to pander. I don't find any weakness in the fact that I did not make the connection between Eliot's poem and Stipe's lyrics when I first posted the video, or while later alluding to the song. After making a comparision, the only connection I see between the lyrics and the poem is by way of allusion (see commentary below), which is typical of Stipe's very oblique style of reference, which is kind of stream-of-consciousness, very modern in the way Eliot so despised. I thank you for the opportunity to briefly compare the two, looking at the lyrics of the song in light of Eliot's verses.
2.a) So, I reference the song a lot without referencing the song? You reference Eliot's poem a lot without referencing Stipe's song, which is the object of my references. It may surprise you to learn that underneath the title is a whole song with lyrics that have meaning even if one has never heard of T.S. Eliot, or his poem, Hollow Men. If anything, Stipe's hollow man stands in stark contrast to Eliot's Hollow Men (see commentary below).
3) How about an interesting and constructive comment in which you make some connections between REM's song Hollow Man and Eliot's poem The Hollow Men? Such a contribution would be more than welcome. A constructive comment would not even need to be signed.

4) You could fill the world with things I don't know. I learn something new everyday. I frequently share what I learn here by way of synthesis and making connections. It makes life exciting. I hope it makes reading my blog interesting. I am well of aware of my weaknesses, physical, moral, intellectual, etc. I am also aware that I have blind spots. Despite all of this, I believe I have a pretty good sense of humor when it comes to my foibles. This lightness towards my own failings is victory hard won and is still a struggle at times. I benefit tremendously from the comments and corrections of readers, who I prefer to think of as friends.

So, in an effort to make prime rib out of a bucket of s@#t, I humbly offer my . . .

Commentary:

I freely admit that I am not a huge devoteé of Eliot, nor I do I read a lot of poetry. He is far from my favorite poet. When I read poetry, I do not reach for Eliot because, to quote Stephen Patrick Morrissey, "he says nothing to me about my life".

I am also aware that it was kind of an influence on Michael Stipe's lyrics for this song. He is not ripping off Eliot, or even re-setting the poem. The song lyrics have to be assessed on their own, as any writing does. The song is written from the perspective of the hollow man. His most notable feature, the reason for the song, is his desire not to be hollow. It is difficult for me to tell, apart from the first stanza, in whose voice Eliot's poem is in. Further, I don't really care whose voice Eliot's poem is in.

While Eliot's Hollow Men (note the plural) have headpieces filled with straw and are truly empty, "Shape without form, shade without colour," Stipe's Hollow Man is aware of his emptiness, his propensity to "get lost inside his head". He also seems aware that the way to overcome his subjectivism and the resultant emptiness is by relating to other people. It is a blown opportunity to relate that occasions the song. Hence, he pleads with his beloved to "corner me and make me something". Being cornered by another is what forces him out of himself and makes him something other than a hollow man.

Stipe's hollow man, at the end of the day, is not quite convinced that he is empty, he asks "Have I become the hollow man I see?" He says, presumably to his beloved, "I want to show you I don't want to be the hollow man". Stipe's hollow man seems to be experiencing the phenomena identified in Eliot's poem:

"Between the emotion
And the response
Falls the Shadow
.

Nonetheless, he is not content in the shadowland, he longs for the light of another face, the face belonging to the one for whom he longs to be something.

LMAO! ;^)> What about? That of all the provocative things I write, I get grief over this bit of minutiae! I'll leave you with a poem by Steve Martin. It is called,

Pointy Birds
Pointy Birds
:

Pointy birds,
oh pointy pointy.
Anoint my head
anointy 'nointy.


Perhaps we could explore whether this was inspired by that Hitchcock film, The Birds, or by Jonathan Livingston Seagull. I prefer to just admire its austere beauty and its economy of language. While we are on matters literary, beginning and ending my commentary with a scatological reference is called framing.